You are considering yourself respectful? I am like a praying mantis. I have this same problem! Thats when i found out the truth ive been avoiding from the start. I wonder if I have just become desensitized to how often this occurs. It scares me for our children and grandchildren.
Thank you so much for sharing your experience … and your insights. A little miniature donkey. I understand, I really do. If I am too angry, sad, confused, hurt… I can hit a pillow or shake up my feelings bottle… then watch my feelings settle as the glitter settles. Inez on April 4, at 6: It still gets hard sometimes and i still wonder why i wasnt good enough for him and why he felt the need to see other women.
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Venting can actually be productive if we focus on behaviors rather than character. I feel a bit relieved by sharing my story with you, because ive never told anyone and i know thats not healthy. I believe that this is how children learn what they can and cannot get away with. Thanks for bringing to the forefront, hopefully there will be a change. You have to have a mentality to move forward in life, instead of sitting down in the reeking shit your partner left you to sit in.
You can say you are sorry…. At age 4 he has a good grasp of what responsible is. Being cheated on is the ultimate betrayal. Also we should never forget how happy kids make us and send them the right messages at the right time and never forget to tell them how important they are and how much we love them. A really thought provoking post. My problem is my oldest only wants me to do things for him.